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shouldn't say to your boyfriend
Are you sure you’re okay?
Sometimes we’re thrown off guard when our guy is uncharacteristically quiet. We’ll prod and probe, hoping to get to the bottom of his issue (and too often, we’re absolutely sure it’s something we’ve done), when in reality, there may not be a concrete reason at all.

Men have bad days, too—they can be moody, tired, or just generally not feel like talking. They’re only human! As hard as it can be, don’t read into it too much. Give him his space and keep yourself busy until he snaps out of it. Ask him what’s bothering him over and over again and the only honest answer will be “you.”